Idea #2: Special Big Sister/Brother Status at Baby Shower

Having a baby shower for a second or third baby is an etiquette controversy but many moms have friends and family who want to celebrate, regardless of how many additions there are to the family. Some people didn't get a shower for their first child or they are having a different gender than the first or it's been a decade since the first... but whatever the reason, we like to celebrate. So cheers to baby showers (or "pamper parties") in whatever form they come in!

If Big Sister or Big Brother is attending the celebration, it is thoughtful to involve them. Becoming a big sister/brother is a huge change at any age and so much talk and attention centers around the unborn baby, it can be helpful to make Big Sister/Brother feel special!

You can create a Big Sister/Brother Kit out of a box or a basket, which would include a few items to help out with the baby: pacifiers if they're the binky-fetching type, books to read to the baby, art supplies to make a card to welcome the baby... you get the idea. You can also include little things just for them - stickers, a big sister shirt or anything really that they will enjoy playing with. They don't care if it fits the theme; they just like getting a gift, particularly when their mom just scored 20 gifts for the baby.

You can also create a Big Sister name tag. In this case, we created a VIP "backstage pass" for Big Sister, Taylor, at her mom's rock star baby shower.


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